The difference in cost seems to be due to the included ignitor in the HPS kit. On one site I checked, they cost under $9.00 a piece.
Which type of ballast is better, I am guessing, would be what you are going to do or want to accomplish.
Here is a Wikipedia link for sodium lamps.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sodium_vapor_lampHere is one for the metal halide lamp
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Metal_halide There is a pretty good description of the lamps, what they do, how they work, and what they are typically used for. I hope this helps you decide which you prefer.